by Barbara Balfour
Calgary Herald
Friday, January 7, 2005
Our reporter dips into the paranormal with visits to a palm reader, a spirit medium and a tea leaf diviner
Not so very long ago, the term “psychic” was associated
with gypsy fortune tellers, spirit mediums in dingy basements
who talked to the dead and tacky Jo Jo Savard infomercials.
You were a kook if you went to see one and a fraud if you claimed
to be one. But nowadays, things have changed – starting
with societal attitudes that have brought our fascination with
the paranormal out of the basement and into the mainstream.
Feel like extending your education? You’re not restricted
to computer software applications, floral arranging or foreign
languages anymore. At Chinook Learning Services (formerly Chinook
College), you can now choose from night classes in palmistry,
tarot card reading or finding your guardian angel.
“The best way to educate yourself is to have an open mind,”
says Donna Crowe, program designer at CLS who initiates new classes
based on public interest. “There is a great interest in
these things – it’s not unlike alternative health.”
Before you dismiss it, consider this: Most companies nowadays
with accept massage and acupuncture treatments as part of their
health-care benefits plan. Twenty years ago, it was considered
hippie nonsense, says Rebecca Sullivan, a professor of communications
studies at the U of C.
“We have a very different sense of ourselves and our bodies
these days,” she says. “There’s been a real
rise in New Ageism – choosing a more individually based,
diffuse from of spirituality over the institutional religious
belief system.”
Subscribers to these beliefs are not always bored homemakers
or lonely retirees. They’re also urban professionals looking
for new ways to tap into their spirituality and creativity.
Shauna Anderson, 39, is a commercial realtor who has been studying
the art of palmistry for over two years.
She says she’s learned to cue into body language more and
uses her knowledge to evaluate how business meetings will go,
what kinds of messages are contained within a handshake and when
to follow one’s gut when it contradicts logic.
“I truly believe that this is a science,” she says.
“It’s about developing a sense of conscious awareness,
and it has opened up a new branch in life for me.”
Anderson was taught by Linda Perry, a Calgary-based palm reader
and artist who teaches the majority of the classes in the city.
In a previous incarnation, Perry worked in the corporate world
in desktop publishing and computer drafting.
After interviewing Anderson, this reporter decided to check out
a few psychics herself, and compare their findings. My experience
n the paranormal began with sitting a Linda Perry’s kitchen
table.
She performs what she calls “gentle, positive” readings
– focusing on the positive rather than on the negative aspects
of life. When it comes to predictions of death and doom, she says,
“I just don’t go there.”
True to her word, her reading was nurturing, almost motherly
– and astonishingly accurate. She was dead on in her description
of my hobbies, family, travel plans and relationship, and doled
out helpful advice on how to deal with conflicts.
Although Perry says her gifts run in the family, with both her
grandmothers having performed tea leaf and tarot card readings,
she believes anyone can do it if they’re willing to learn.
“I always tell people, remember to have fun with it, but
be responsible for what you say and how you say thins to people,”
she says. “People take you at your word, but nothing is
ever set in stone. I believe in free will over fate.”
Emboldened by the positive results of my palm reading, I set
off for a tea leaf reading at Oolong Tea House with mind reader
and psychic entertainer Paul Alberstat.
Alberstat holds a find arts degree from the University of Calgary
and was one class short of a education degree before deciding
his hear wasn’t in it. Instead, he tapped into an interest
I the paranormal he’s head since he was 12, and has performed
stage shows around the world as a successful magician. Today,
he entertains at corporate functions and reads the tea leaves
at Steeps The Urban Teahouse and Oolong.
“There are three kinds of people who come to see me, “he
says as we sat ear thte window of the trendy Kensington tea shop.
“There are people who do it just for the fun of it; people
who want an edge on others in terms of knowing what they can expect
financially or where they sit socially; and people ho genuinely
need hep and can’t afford to spend $250 an hour for therapy.”
After I gulped down my tea, Alberstat turned the cup over and
had me turn it clockwise three times with my left hand. He then
explained what’s in store for me for the next 12 months,
based on the shape and location of the leaves left in my cup.
Some highlights: I’m to expect financial difficulty in
March; I’m supposed to run into someone from my past on
a work-related project n late spring; and, in July, I should receive
the news of a pregnancy, birth or engagement of someone close
to me. Alberstat also predicted long-distance travel I the fall,
which I’ve already started planning, unbeknownst to him.
It was a nice reading with lots of tid-bits and a good advice.
Albertstat comes across as kind and reassuring, which is what
many of his clients come looking for.
But if you’re looking for an experience that will make
you question your beliefs and leave the little hairs at the back
of your neck standing up for days on end, Kim Dennis is your gal.
Otherwise known as Clairvoyant Kim, she is not someone you can
just pop in to see any time. This famous local spirit medium,
who has her own television and radio show and published a book
last fall, is already booking appointments into July.
And that’s because she is incredible at what she does.
Within minutes of my walking into her northwest home, before I
have a chance to sit down or she has any opportunity to search
for body cues that might give away things, she tells me the names
and identities of my deceased relatives. Apparently, they are
I the room with us.
So is the ex-boyfriend of a friend of mine who died two years
ago in a terrible car accident. Dennis would have no other way
of knowing any of this information. There’s no research
of any kind that could provide her with the uncommon name of my
Russian maternal grandmother.
But there’s more. Not 20 minutes have passed before Dennis
tells me the accurate ages and medical conditions of my parents,
my complete ethic and family background, the exact details of
my friendships and personal relationships, the location s of the
travels I have been on the travels I have planned.
I left her home without it having quite sunk in, but later that
night as my inner skeptic analysed it, I was absolutely floored.
Dennis says she started having daily out-of-body experiences
at the age of 13; later in life, when she worked as a bank teller,
she would see the names and faces of customers several minutes
before they walked in the door.
It took decades for her to realize she could harness her gifts
into a career, one that involves a weekly radio show on country
105, monthly appearances on A-Channel’s Big Breakfast and
a television show five days a week.
“That inner voice we all have – that’s your
compass, your navigator and your guide,” she says. “All
of the answers are inside of you. Sometimes you don’t hear
them because you’re thinking too much; you’re letting
the noise of the world get to you first.”
We’ve come a long way since the days of Alexander Graham
Bell, who had hoped to be able to communicate with the dead through
the telephone when he first invented it.
But one thing remains the same, as Sullivan puts it: “We’ve
never lost our fascination with, and desire to know more about,
the other side.”
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